Out of Court Solutions
By Enrev on Feb 23, 2009 in Business
I am looking for out of court solutions to my marriage. A legal trial or big divorce case is not something that I am looking forward. It would take too long and would just destroy our relationship even more so. In addition, with the kids involved in the divorce, the last thing that I would like to do is to make this process painful. Is there any hope for such a nice type of divorce? It sounds like it is impossible, but since my wife and I are both relatively stable people and we do not hate each other, I think it can work.
For those who may have done this type of collaborative divorce Scottsdale is where we are located. I am hoping that someone in this area has gone through this problem and process in the past and can shed some light on how the process works and whether or not it is possible to do this successfully. When it comes to divorce mediation, is there really a good result? I have heard that people can really make this work for each other if they are both committed and willing to do the work that is required of them. Is there anyone with any experience here?

On Mar 7, 2009, Gilbert Taylor said:
Out of Court should be something to think about as a money saving avenue only. Depending on how difficult the breakup has been you may need the protection that the divorce trial can provide.
On Mar 10, 2009, Garrett Tate said:
I looked in the phone book to find a mediation service and only found eight listed and it was not that easy to find them. It may be a great service, I just wish it were easier to find them.
On Mar 12, 2009, Garth said:
I have to agree with the idea of using a mediation service to work out the details of the divorce. Anything to make a bad situation better in my opinion.
On Mar 14, 2009, Brad said:
The process will work if you both enter in with the state of mind to make it work. Mediation is a great tool but the end result will be based on the two of you and how well you can agree on the details of the divorce.
On Mar 15, 2009, Tom said:
You are right, when it comes to Divorce there is never a good result. Just results that are less severe or harmful to those involved. That is why mediation works.